It’s an illusion that I can control other people’s reactions (when I can’t even truly fully control my own).
It’s an illusion that I can ‘hurt’ someone without their readiness & willingness to be ‘hurt’ and their personal contribution to the situation.
It’s an illusion that relationships can benefit from lies.
It’s an illusion that I can fix someone & make someone happy by changing myself.
But even if I live in an illusion, whatever happens is good - if it happens, exactly this is vital for our progress, development, evolution & healing.
There are no mistakes & no surprises. Everything is meant to be. And this is the beauty of life.
The more conscious we are of what is happening and what & how we’re learning, the better we can see this beauty, the more pleasant life is.